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I wonder we replaced the term "normal" with "natural" and then asked the questions you ask of yourself. Drop some hints, say you have a crush on a guy and just get a convo started and let it flow. You also don't need to directly say i'm gay. Don't say it's a secret or any thing like that. Also a good tip for 'coming out'.hate that saying but any way lol, Try not to be all dramatic about it because that tells the person you aren't comfortable with it or that it's something to hide. There is plenty of people willing to help you though it if you need someone. It is a hard thing to deal with but hang in there. Try not to think of them in a sexual way, make sure they keep there shirt on lol, try to hang out with them in a group because being alone together is just a way to catch feelings. You can't help feelings I know but you can manage them. As you know it won't work so why bother yourself.
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After a while they go back to being just mates again. I think ask them straight out if there is signs there or just move on. So yes there has been times when you lust over a mate but move on. It's a problem for me because i go for straighter guys and the manly ones are my fave aha. It's like falling in love with your best mate to be honest :)Īlso the drama with liking your friends a bit too much. I think being with another guy is just more simple some times. There is downfalls with being gay but there is also a lot of benefits. Well done for taking that jump because as most know here, it's not easy at all. It's a hard thing to do but telling some people is a great start. But I got to a point where i couldn't fight it any more and come to the realisation that I couldn't change it and that if i was to be happy in life i had to accept it and move on. I hid my sexuality for years and tried to change it because in my family and town it was right up there with one of the worst things you could do. I had this same problem too and still feel the same sometimes. thought I'd try out this forum because I know I'm not the only one and I just want to talk about it but it's impossible for me to do it face to face. I don't know what to do i could talk to someone but im horrible with talking about that stuff face to face I can never get the words out. Most days I just sit there wishing I was normal and it's really effecting my grades, I barley do any work in class and I have no direction in life. He doesn't seem to mind and thinks it's kind of funny but it just kills me inside know that I can never have a relationship with him. He knows I do because I told him when I was drunk. I've had a crush on my best friend for years now and this is probably one of the hardest things ive had to deal with. When my friends talk about girls I feel so empty and sad that I will never be able to feel what they are, and that I can't let my emotions out to them without a awkward stigma in the room. It's not because people take it badly it's just the thought of never being "normal" and having a family and kids is killing me on the inside. But some days I feel like I want back in the closet. It's went really well and he has supported me through this and help me tell others. Hi I about 6 months ago I came out for the first time to a good friend.